Leadership Series, Motivational, New Blog Series

Plot Twist: Life Isn’t the Problem… You Are.

Today, this book I’ve been reading decided to hit me with some deep, shake-your-core kind of wisdom.

You know, the typical kind that makes you want to simply stop mid-sip of your coffee and stare at the wall like,

Oh Wow… so I’ve actually been the problem this whole time?

So, in this book, a certain William James said, “Be not afraid of life.

Believe that life is worth living, and your belief will help create the fact.

And James Allen added,

“The outer conditions of a person’s life will always be found to reflect their inner beliefs.”

Translation? My reality isn’t just happening to me I’m actively creating it with my beliefs.

Excuse me, what?

At first, I wanted to argue.

Because surely, life is just unfair sometimes, right? But then, I started connecting the dots.

The way I see things the way you see things isn’t about reality itself.

It’s about the lens we use.

If I believe life is tough, exhausting, and constantly out to get me, well… surprise.

That’s exactly what I’ll see.

But if I believe life is full of opportunities, lessons, and moments of joy?

I start seeing those too.

And that’s when it hit me I can’t control everything that happens, but I can control how I perceive it.

My beliefs shape my experience.

And if I don’t like what I see, maybe it’s time to adjust the lens.

So, let me ask you what beliefs are running your life right now?

Are they empowering you, or are they limiting you?

Because at the end of the day, life will reflect what you choose to see.

Keep an eye out this book is serving life lessons, and I’ll be sharing more.

So please subscribe so you don’t miss out. And oh Happy New Month, my lovelies. Let’s make this an amazing one. Cheers.



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