Let’s find out shall we…
Like I said previously, you’ll be seeing more of such posts from me for now… I’m just in that phase of my life, so bear with me… that said enjoy this piece…
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Some days, I don’t reply.
Not because I don’t care
but because I’m tired.
Tired in my bones.
Tired in my spirit.
Tired in a way sleep can’t fix.
And when the silence stretches,
I start to wonder:
Am I a bad friend?
Because I don’t check in as often.
Because I forget birthdays,
miss calls,
leave messages unread
for hours… sometimes days.
But it’s not that I’ve stopped loving you.
It’s not that I don’t think of you.
It’s just — I’ve been pouring from an empty cup,
and now, there’s nothing left to give.
I carry guilt like a second skin.
Feeling like I’ve let everyone down,
especially the ones I care about the most.
But lately, I’ve had to ask myself:
Is this neglect? Or is this exhaustion?
Am I distant? Or just overwhelmed?
Have I failed you?
Or have I finally paused to save myself?
Because friendship, real friendship,
shouldn’t come at the cost
of your mental health.
It shouldn’t feel like a job
you’re scared of losing.
So if you’ve felt like this
if you’ve asked yourself this same question
let this be your reminder:
You’re not a bad friend.
You’re just human.
And maybe right now,
you’re healing too.
To the friends I’ve gone quiet on:
I’m sorry.
But I’m trying.
Trying to breathe again.
Trying to be a better me
so I can be better for you.
And if you’re still here when I come back,
Thank you.
That means more than you know.
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