I was watching a video on Instagram, it got me thinking and I was prompted to share this with you. The absence of a father in a son's lite, affects him greatly, and his son's wife who now has to endure an "under-fathered man" Mind you the absence I mean is not just physical absence.… Continue reading Fathers & Under-Fathered Sons
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The Quiet Battles of Managing Anxiety as a High Achiever
For years, I chased gold stars. Perfect grades, leadership roles, prestigious awards, and certificates – you name it, I wanted it. On paper, I was thriving. But Inside? Now that's a different story. The relentless pursuit of excellence became a breeding ground for anxiety, a silent saboteur whispering doubts and fears. Maybe you recognize this… Continue reading The Quiet Battles of Managing Anxiety as a High Achiever
Planned Neglect
Sometimes life feels overwhelming not because we’re doing too little, but because we’re trying to do too much. Let me keep it real with you. We’re out here trying to fix everything, attend to everyone, juggle responsibilities, and still wonder why we feel drained. That’s where planned neglect comes in. Planned neglect isn’t about being… Continue reading Planned Neglect
Hell Hath No Fury Like a Woman Scorned…
You’ve probably heard the phrase “hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.” It basically means: when a woman feels betrayed or deeply hurt especially in love her anger can be like wildfire. I once heard a story about a lady named Maya. She loved her boyfriend with everything time, trust, support, all of it.… Continue reading Hell Hath No Fury Like a Woman Scorned…
Celebrate Successes
Sometimes we don’t even notice the progress we’ve made until someone else points it out. Maybe you’ve been working out, eating better, or just trying to stay consistent at something, and you feel like it’s not enough. Then a friend says, “You look good!” or “Wow, you’ve done so well!” and it hits you, Oh!,… Continue reading Celebrate Successes
Allowing Problems…
This might sound cringey but see it as a Simple Reflection. Here’s the thing, I just got to understand that there’s a big difference between having a big problem and making a problem big. I’ve been there. Something small would go wrong, maybe I missed a deadline, ran short on money, or had a tough… Continue reading Allowing Problems…
If Your Friends Aren’t Friends, Make New Friends
As we enter this new month, take a moment to reflect on your circle. Are the people closest to you adding value to your life? If not, don’t be afraid to create space for new friendships that align with your purpose. This September, may you be surrounded by people who believe in your potential, push you to grow, and celebrate your wins. Step boldly into the month knowing that the right relationships will fuel your journey. Happy new month, lovelies 🥰🫶🏾 New Blog Post Update…Link in bio… Cheers…🙂↔️
The Core of Self-Preservation
This blog post is a highlight and a reflective addition to a blog post I read earlier today from PJ @lifesfinewhine which talked about “types of people to avoid in your twenties” PJ laid out a wise, heartfelt list from the “Me, Me, Me’s” to the subtly harmful “Faux Type B’s” and dangerous “Narcissists”, including “Pick‑Me’s”… Continue reading The Core of Self-Preservation
When the Words Stop Coming
I miss writing. Earlier this year, I made a promise to myself to take blogging seriously, to show up consistently, to pour out thoughts and stories like I always used to. And for a while, I did. But by mid-May, something shifted. I stopped. Not because something bad happened. Not because life got too chaotic.… Continue reading When the Words Stop Coming
Walking Away From Comfortable Chaos
Describe a risk you took that you do not regret. — A Story of Release and Renewal ….. I mean, comfort is cute… until it starts choking you slowly and calling it “routine.” I once sat in the middle of what looked like peace from the outside, A stable space, calm conversations, morning check-ins, decent… Continue reading Walking Away From Comfortable Chaos
