For years, I chased gold stars. Perfect grades, leadership roles, prestigious awards, and certificates – you name it, I wanted it. On paper, I was thriving. But Inside? Now that's a different story. The relentless pursuit of excellence became a breeding ground for anxiety, a silent saboteur whispering doubts and fears. Maybe you recognize this… Continue reading The Quiet Battles of Managing Anxiety as a High Achiever
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When Life Hits the Reset Button
Refocus on the Mission!!! Have you ever gotten so caught up doing everything that you forget why you even started? Yeah, that was me running around like a headless chicken, busy but not productive. I told myself I was “multitasking,” but deep down, I knew I was just distracted. Somewhere between helping others, chasing deadlines,… Continue reading When Life Hits the Reset Button
Hell Hath No Fury Like a Woman Scorned…
You’ve probably heard the phrase “hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.” It basically means: when a woman feels betrayed or deeply hurt especially in love her anger can be like wildfire. I once heard a story about a lady named Maya. She loved her boyfriend with everything time, trust, support, all of it.… Continue reading Hell Hath No Fury Like a Woman Scorned…
Leaders Put Emphasis on Intangibles…
Can we talk a little bit about Leadership today… Now here’s the thing about leadership, it’s not always about numbers, deadlines, or checklists. Those things matter, but they’re not the whole story. Real leadership is often about the intangibles things you can’t measure with a calculator. Think about it: morale, motivation, attitude, emotions, timing, atmosphere.… Continue reading Leaders Put Emphasis on Intangibles…
Celebrate Successes
Sometimes we don’t even notice the progress we’ve made until someone else points it out. Maybe you’ve been working out, eating better, or just trying to stay consistent at something, and you feel like it’s not enough. Then a friend says, “You look good!” or “Wow, you’ve done so well!” and it hits you, Oh!,… Continue reading Celebrate Successes
Allowing Problems…
This might sound cringey but see it as a Simple Reflection. Here’s the thing, I just got to understand that there’s a big difference between having a big problem and making a problem big. I’ve been there. Something small would go wrong, maybe I missed a deadline, ran short on money, or had a tough… Continue reading Allowing Problems…
🌸 September Newsletter – Perseverance Gets Results 🌸
This month’s word is perseverance, a reminder that staying consistent in prayer, faith and work brings results. Beloved, God’s will is already for our good; perseverance isn’t about changing His mind but about pressing through resistance until His promises manifest. As we begin September, let’s not give up too soon, but keep believing, praying, and trusting. May this month bring renewed strength, answered prayers, and fresh testimonies. Happy New Month Fam❤️ I’ve dropped another post on my blog, see link in comments to read it to edify your mind. Cheers🥰
The Core of Self-Preservation
This blog post is a highlight and a reflective addition to a blog post I read earlier today from PJ @lifesfinewhine which talked about “types of people to avoid in your twenties” PJ laid out a wise, heartfelt list from the “Me, Me, Me’s” to the subtly harmful “Faux Type B’s” and dangerous “Narcissists”, including “Pick‑Me’s”… Continue reading The Core of Self-Preservation
When the Words Stop Coming
I miss writing. Earlier this year, I made a promise to myself to take blogging seriously, to show up consistently, to pour out thoughts and stories like I always used to. And for a while, I did. But by mid-May, something shifted. I stopped. Not because something bad happened. Not because life got too chaotic.… Continue reading When the Words Stop Coming
Don’t Take Rejection Personally
I’ll be honest rejection used to crush me. One “no” and I’d start questioning everything about myself. Was I not good enough? Was I wrong to even try? But then I came across what John Maxwell said in today's study that; “Rejection is an event, not a person.” Rejection isn’t a mirror reflecting our worth… Continue reading Don’t Take Rejection Personally
